4 Real Signs You Need to Ask for Help:
4 Real Signs You Need to Ask for Help:
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The season our world is reeling from has many of us feeling stuck and needing to ask for help. After forced isolation, faces covered, and physical touch prohibited, we face a long road of recovery not just from the tragic loss of life, but in how we reach out to love one another through life. Physical, mental and spiritual symptoms abound to alert us to the need for help and healing. God did not create us to live alone. In fact, He guarantees we are never alone, and His Holy Spirit resides in every being, but far more, our faithful Father purposefully places us in our generations, communities, and families.
Nothing will ever be perfect this side of heaven, but we are not alone. Let’s cling to the love which binds us to each other as we come together again. We can hold onto our faith. God is our Rock, Provider, and Healer. Let’s not ignore the ways in which He works to help, heal and provide for us. Nor should we ever stop praying for or expecting miracles.
1. Thoughts of Suicide
2. Physical Symptoms
Sleeplessness, unexplainable weight gain, addiction, loss of appetite, self-harm such as hair pulling or cutting can all by symptoms to treatable issues. There is a multitude of hurt and brokenness in this world. We never have to feel shame over things which are plaguing us or keeping us from living our lives the way God meant for us to — not necessarily pain free, but definitely to the full!
We’ve all navigated this past season of pandemic on adrenaline. As we are emerging from it our bodies will once again need time, compassion, rest, and care as we adjust. Trouble sleeping can be a symptom of a multitude of physical and mental health issues. Reach out to a friend, family member, pastor, counselor, medical professional to see if they recognize or can help find the root of the problem.
3. Mental Symptoms
“Don’t be afraid, I’ve redeemed you. I’ve called your name. You’re mind. When you’re in over your head, I’ll be there with you. When you’re in rough waters, you will not go down. When you’re between a rock and a hard place, it won’t be a dead end- Because I am GOD, your Savior: all of Egypt, with rich Cush and Seba thrown in! That’s how much you mean to me! That’s how much I love you! I’d sell off the whole world to get you back, trade the creation just for you.”
When we read these verses from Isaiah in the Message paraphrase, we are able to gather a modern-day feel for how much God loves us. Our current situation in the world isn’t a shock to Him. He is unchanging. Steady as He has always been. Our Rock and Redeemer, Healer and Provider. When our minds are suffering, we need His healing.
Isolation, lack of focus, excessive fear, constant sadness, lack of motivation to do the things we would normally love to do all can be signs and symptoms of treatable problems. We were not meant to live alone, so even introverted people need actual facetime with others. Our brains are organs which help to make us function correctly, just like the other parts of us. There is no shame in asking for help when the wheels are falling off. We seek help for sore throats and broken bones, our minds deserve no less care. Counselors are angels on this earth, able to help us sort through and identify the source of our suffering and come alongside us as we heal.
4. Spiritual Symptoms
“Because you are special to Me and I love you, I gladly give up other peoples in exchange for you; they are trivial by comparison to your weighty significance.”
people in the ancient world worshipped many gods. Those gods didn’t always love the people that worshipped them the most! Sometimes they loved places, such as temples. There is a spiritual battle waging war all around us, but we are sealed with Holy Spirit as His when we follow Christ Jesus. Still, we can endure seasons of attack and feel a lack of God’s presence.
The entire world is stuck and reeling from the pandemic, amidst all of the other complicated issues ongoing around the globe. Injustice, wars, famines and natural disasters are happening daily in our world. God is not surprised. He is ever ready to care for us and heal us in a way in which only He can. It’s more important now than ever before, to acknowledge our weaknesses and seek the help He has provided to heal. When others see and hear of our story, they will also wonder Who we have followed to such a place of healing and peace despite the direst circumstances. Christ gives us a hope and a joy that supersedes anything else on this earth. Let us not forget the aid we have at the tips of our fingers, nor neglect to tell of it!
1. YOU ARE BORING.
ReplyDeleteA boring man is not necessarily a bad man but it's not just what a woman wants.
Boring means you are just not fun to be with, a guy who is not active, lively, interesting, and not adventurous.
Women easily get attracted to men who have a high energy to meet up with their dramatic nature; they love men who can satisfy the thirst of their feminine frame, men who can put them into that emotional rollercoaster.
Boring guys know nothing about this; they don't talk much, they lack knowledge of breaking a woman's ego, are always serious about life, are too compromising, act too feminine, etc.
This attitude irritates women because it makes them see men as their fellow women.
2. Too desperate, needy and clingy.
Women dislike desperate guys so much that they can sense it from afar, and it becomes their turn-off.
Women love men who don't put them first, second or third.
Your attention is key, learn to control it.
3. NO GAMES.
a. Games mean understanding women's psychology, how women think, and their behavioral patterns.
b. Knowing how to penetrate their frame through words and charisma.
c. Dominating femininity through masculinization and red-pilled.
A man with the knowledge of this truth will always have more advantage in attracting women than a man without this knowledge.
4. NO CHARISMA.
Women love men with strong attitudes; when a man exudes attitudes that communicate power, he can influence people and not women.
Attitudes such as discipline, integrity, drama, strictness, reliability, commitment, good sense of humor, strong-headed, ambition, assertiveness, etc.
Women find such men attractive.
5. POOR COMMUNICATIONAL SKILLS.
Women are easily attracted to men who are articulate, who can verbally express their thoughts, and who are creative with words.
Women are naturally drawn to intelligence, so once you can speak well, they naturally feel you are intelligent.
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6. POOR DRESS SENSE.
How you dress has the power to win people's hearts towards or against you.
Women are easily attracted to guys with good dress sense, wearing fitted clothes, good rest watch, nice shoes and sneakers, etc.
Some young men dress as if they are against the human race, have very bad dressing sense, oversized clothes, and no swag at all.
Learn to smell well and wear good perfume.
7. LACKS THE GENTLEMAN ATTITUDE.
Gentlemen are not SIMPs, it's an emblem of being responsible.
Be calm, caring, loving, have a heart, be considerate, be understanding to some certain extent, but at the same time, BE DANGEROUS.
In as much as you look harmless still be dangerous.
That's the balance. A man must find this balance and be able to express it based on situations.
Women are attracted to men who are gentlemen.
8. NOT RESPONSIBLE.
Stay focused and be purpose-driven; women find it a joy to see men chase their goals instead of them.
Love is sweet when the man chases his goals while the woman chases him.
You don't take your life seriously and don't hold yourself accountable.
9. NO LEADERSHIP QUALITIES.
Women are attracted to men who exude leadership qualities like confidence, bravery, vision, commitment, etc.
10. LACK MAN POWER, FAME OR MONEY.
Women love men with resources; they are easily drawn to men who have attained a status with these features.
Get It.
Finally, if you want women to be all over you.
Fix this things in your life and watch yourself become a god to women.
Stay Putinized.